DEAR DEIDRE: I FEEL under pressure to give my boyfriend oral sex just to shut him up.
I don’t want to do it, I have never wanted to, and never will. It makes me feel
My boyfriend knows this but he keeps pestering me.
I am 22 and he is 24. We have been together for a year.
It is the one thing we disagree on. I am adventurous and have tried everything else he has suggested and I have never pressured him into doing anything I might want.
I have even suggested he wears a flavoured condom for oral as a compromise.
He refused, saying he wouldn’t feel anything so there wouldn’t be much point.
It’s making me miserable.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t feel pressured to do anything sexually against your will.
Everyone has different sexual preferences and some people just aren’t into it.
Very few people like to do everything there is to do sexually.
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