DEAR DEIDRE: IN the past year, my sex drive has fallen off a cliff. But my partner needs more action – and I do too.
I am 32 and have been with my gorgeous partner for nearly three years.
She is 30 and expecting our first child early in 2021.
We used to have sex many times a week but I find it hard to get in the mood now.
I am often stressed out at work and sometimes lose my erection.
Then I worry it’s going to happen next time.
I have been doing talk therapy about my anxiety – but surely this can’t be the reason my libido has gone?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Sex starts in your head, so moments of doubt are enough to put you off your stride. Stress hormones can affect desire.
If your anxiety is linked to unresolved issues, therapy will help. But it also could temporarily dampen your libido.
My e-leaflet Reviving A Man’s Sex Drive will help you get your mojo back.
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