'Lovable rogue', 26, killed himself after being falsely accused of rape and feared 'rapist title would never go away'

A "LOVABLE rogue" killed himself after being falsely accused of rape and feared the "title of rapist would never go away".

Grant Townsend, 26, was found dead by his mum at their home in Hull, Humberside on June 6 last year.


He had battled mental health for a number of years.

An inquest at Hull Coroner's Court heard he had intended to take his own life after struggling following a false allegation of rape against him.

Mr Townsend was acquitted at a trial.

His Mum Keely Gillbey told the inquest her son feared "the title of rapist would never go away" even though he'd been found innocent.

'DETERIORATE'

His mental health got worse from 2017 after the false allegation, Ms Gillbey said.

She said: "He was found not guilty – it took them less than 10 minutes for all of them to come back with a not guilty verdict.

"But it affected Grant in a big, big way, especially knowing what I had gone through as a child.

"To be accused of that affected him big time, it really did. I watched him deteriorate."

He was found not guilty, but it affected Grant in a big, big way,

The inquest also heard he had "found it difficult to leave the house" and insisted he was fine, even though Ms Gillbey found a suicide note declaring his innocence.

They didn't discuss the note, but she believes he knew she found it as she threw away tablets that were in his room.

Mr Townsend had started a relationship with a woman a short time later, the court heard.

"They got a house together but they did have problems", Ms Gillbey told the inquest.

'SOBBED'

Mr Townsend was kicked out of their home after problems with the couple getting jobs.

Ms Gillbey said: "The day he came home he sobbed and he could barely go outside and was fed up with everything."

The inquest heard he was "crying himself to sleep".

The court heard he had had struggled to come to terms with abuse his mum suffered and his uncle's death.

He was also teased about his accent after moving from Kent to Hull when he was a schoolboy.

YOU’RE NOT ALONE

EVERY 90 minutes in the UK a life is lost to suicide.

It doesn't discriminate, touching the lives of people in every corner of society – from the homeless and unemployed to builders and doctors, reality stars and footballers.

It's the biggest killer of people under the age of 35, more deadly than cancer and car crashes.

And men are three times more likely to take their own life than women.

Yet it's rarely spoken of, a taboo that threatens to continue its deadly rampage unless we all stop and take notice, now.

That is why The Sun launched the You're Not Alone campaign.

The aim is that by sharing practical advice, raising awareness and breaking down the barriers people face when talking about their mental health, we can all do our bit to help save lives.

Let's all vow to ask for help when we need it, and listen out for others… You're Not Alone.

If you, or anyone you know, needs help dealing with mental health problems, the following organisations provide support:

  • CALM, www.thecalmzone.net, 0800 585 858
  • Heads Together, www.headstogether.org.uk
  • Mind, www.mind.org.uk, 0300 123 3393
  • Papyrus, www.papyrus-uk.org, 0800 068 41 41
  • Samaritans, www.samaritans.org, 116 123

On June 6, Ms Gillbey came downstairs around 5.30am to find her son sleeping on the sofa.

Ms Gillbey revealed the phone conversation they had after she arrived at work, where Mr Townsend asked if his dog had "settled" the night before.

Speaking after the inquest, Ms Gillbey said: "His dog Kilo was his life.He absolutely worshipped him.

"I think that's why when I spoke to him in the morning, I should have clicked then that something wasn't right because he kept asking me 'did the dog settle with you last night' and whether or not 'the dog was definitely alright with you mum, definitely, definitely alright'."

'LOVEABLE ROGUE'

Ms Gillbey found her son's body after returning home from work.

Neighbours battled to save him life by performing CPR,but paramedics confirmed he had died.

Paying tribute to her son, Ms Gillbey said: "He was a bit of a loveable rogue. To look at him, to meet him, you wouldn't know that anything was wrong.

"Knowing that inside his head was turmoil, his face never showed it.

"I think that goes for a lot of men that are suffering out there, they all walk around out there with a smile on their face."

Coroner Michael Mellun ruled Mr Townsend's death was suicide.

He said: "Not only did he die through his own actions but he did intend to die, taking into account that he had been suffering from anxiety and depression and the allegation of rape still weighed heavily above him."


Contact the Samaritans

If you have been affected by any of the issues in this article contact The Samaritans on 116 123. They are available for free at anytime.

Or email https://www.samaritans.org/

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